HAVE A WEEKLY MEETING

Sometimes it seems as if there simply isn't enough time in the morning--precisely why so many readers stressed the importance of getting things ready ahead of time.

For the Osleys of Bolton, Connecticut, that process begins each Sunday after supper, when the family meets to go over the week's activities. With mom Melanie traveling frequently for work, dad Robert working a physician's hours and assorted activities to arrange for Michael, nine, and Nicholas, four, it's a real juggling act. The Sunday powwow allows them to get everything out in the open so there are fewer surprises during the busy week, like forgotten sports equipment or sudden science projects.

FLIP OVER A FLIP CHART

For the past few years, the Doyles of Colchester, Connecticut, have relied on a simple system to keep track of weekly activities. Inspired by her daily planner, Sandy drew up a set of index cards, one for every day of the week.

With a column for each family member, the cards list each day's routine activities, with reminders such as "Sneakers: gym today" and "take out trash." The cards are held together by a metal ring and are kept in a spot where everyone can refer to them. When activities change, Sandy simply adjusts the card or fills out a new one.

QUICK TIPS: Turning off the TV, many readers wrote, can make a big difference. Although some use the tube as a getting-ready reward, most find it a major distraction.