The day of giving has arrived, and it's time to make a difference! In addition to smart daily practices such as enjoying a good night's rest and well-balanced meals, it's a good idea to talk to your children about what's to come. Prepare for the day by going over your duties and establishing a positive mood. Your children will be entering a new environment so be sure to let them know it's OK to ask for assistance and that all questions are good ones.

Getting ready for the event will add a new dimension to mealtime discussions or talks during car rides. Volunteering together opens the door to communicating in a way that doesn't normally arise in day-to-day life. By actively fulfilling community needs as a family, you'll have the chance to talk about societal issues and learn about each other's values and concerns.

Volunteering is fun and rewarding, and your kids will most likely enjoy serving their community. But it's important to remind them that volunteering is also a serious matter. Keep in mind that the people you are helping may not, quite understandably, be in the best of moods. Depending on where your family chooses to help out, you may be dealing with people who are sick, who have lost loved ones, who haven't eaten for days, or who are struggling for one reason or another. Remind your children of the golden rule and emphasize the values of compassion and respect. Explain to your children that your family is sharing time with these people because they have a great deal to share with you as well. With unique stories, memories, and jokes to exchange, volunteering is truly a "win-win" situation.