When to Get More Help

Children typically grow and learn new skills in their own time and at their own pace within the wide range of what is normal. Sometimes, children need a bit of extra help to keep their development on track, or to stay healthy and happy. Sometimes, parents need help providing for a child's needs or sorting out the best approaches to parenting.

HELP FOR YOUR CHILD
Consider getting help for your child if she:
• Cries frequently or seems extremely sad.
• Appears withdrawn.
• Shows signs of stress, disappointment, or depression.
• Has disturbed sleeping and eating patterns and acts much younger than his age for a period of time after the move.
• Is reluctant to separate from family members.
• Seems excessively worried or fearful about the new situation.
• Seems in denial about the move.
• Has increased or unusual and lasting anger and tantrums.

*Note: Any of the above behaviors are common in young children during a move, and usually pass quickly; if they do not, and instead last for a period of time that seems extreme to you, seek advice.

You are the expert when it comes to your family and child. If you have a concern, trust your instinct and find someone trained to help you: health care providers, early intervention teams, mental health professionals, parent educators and consultants, or telephone help-line staff. Consider talking it over with friends and family, too. You don't need to worry alone!